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Title: Prayers for mom and I ...
Post by: bayoulongbowman on June 27, 2011, 08:41:00 PM
My mom has altimerz , Im the caregiver. I love my mom and I do everything to care and help for her.Its not going to get anybetter, I know...
 pLEASE remember mom and I , when ya bend a knee, I have gone through every emotion , happy , sad mad has hell, tried ...I cry about once a month, its just that less I have to pee, LOL right...if ya have time mom and I would love a prayer...hope ur arrows flight straight..if ya can hug ur mom today . Not much time for bows and arrows these days...oh I miss it so....ur pal mark..thanks gang
  ps mom bought me my first little ben pearson bow set 15#...she is great mom
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Post by: BenBow on June 27, 2011, 10:38:00 PM
Prayers for comfort and God's best
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Post by: 4dogs on June 27, 2011, 10:48:00 PM
Pray for comfort and peace of mind. Lost my mother in law recently to that disease. Take care of your self too and please get help when you need it.
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Post by: Right Wing on June 28, 2011, 12:53:00 AM
Prayers for you and your Mom...
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on June 28, 2011, 09:45:00 AM
many thanks tradgang
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Post by: Doc Nock on June 28, 2011, 10:57:00 AM
Marc,

Dealing with the vagaries of mental loss of this hidious disease is the one area of total weakness and cowardess that terrifies me.

My grandmom had it, and one of Dad's sisters. I pray the Lord takes him home long before that happens.

My heart goes out to you.  You make the Lord smile that you continue to honor your mom in this way of loving care.  Take care of the care-giver. I hear that all the time visiting Dad daily, but they don't understand there is no "choice" in caring for a parent, is there, Marc?  :)

Prayers for you and your Mom.  You are a strong man to only cry once a month!

May God's peace that passes all understanding be upon you both in this time of trial.  

Keep the Son in your eyes, bro.
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on June 28, 2011, 11:15:00 AM
Doc, more than you will ever know , thank you sir...you are always there brother with the right words. thanks again Doc..mark
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Post by: GRAYBEARD on June 28, 2011, 12:10:00 PM
I have walked the trail you are on and the bright spots are few. All your emotions are normal for what you are facing so don't beat yourself up. Just let your love for a fine lady guide you.
With Prayers for Strength and Peace
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on June 28, 2011, 05:10:00 PM
Jed, ya nailed it my firend, thanks Mark
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Post by: magnus on June 29, 2011, 10:47:00 PM
God Bless you brother! That is a terrible disease that is hardest on the family!  God is proud of you for honoring you mom the way you are. I pray for both of you!
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on June 30, 2011, 10:53:00 AM
Thanks Matt...God bless all ...mark
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Post by: PaPaFrank on June 30, 2011, 05:06:00 PM
Mark, I to have tread the path that you now walk. Jed said it best. I applaud your strength and courage and will keep you and your Mom in my prayers.
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on June 30, 2011, 07:04:00 PM
PaPa...thanks bud, its weird , I go through so many emotions , highs lows, I wish I could just go stump shooting for half a day, but its moms time this week. thanks again...I'm so thanksful of ur prayers...almost end of the week, Im tried...mark
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Post by: bear1336 on July 01, 2011, 07:36:00 AM
Brother Marc,
Prayers are being sent for you and your Mom as I type.
In HIS serivce
Dave
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on July 02, 2011, 11:58:00 AM
thanks dave!
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Post by: don s on July 02, 2011, 12:35:00 PM
hi mark, i'll say a prayer for you and your mom. i know first hand how you feel. i lost my mom just over two years ago. she had alzheimers. her mother also had it and even though i was younger i still remember a lot because grandma lived with us. i helped my dad take care of my mom as much as i possibly could. she passed two months before her and my dads 50th wedding anniversary. i know just how you feel. the hardest part for me was trying not to lose patience with mom. it was so hard, sometimes i said things that i was sorry for. i know god forgives me and i know my mom did too. i'm going to send you a pm. don
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Post by: Stone Knife on July 02, 2011, 01:02:00 PM
God bless you brother, my dad has the same thing and it's not an easy road. praying for you and your mother....†
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Post by: bayoulongbowman on July 02, 2011, 03:18:00 PM
Thanks Don and James....have great July 4th...mark
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Post by: StoneAK on July 02, 2011, 09:10:00 PM
My prayers are for you. I lost my grandfather to the disease 2 years ago and it wasn't easy. If you ever need anything just ask. God Bless
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Post by: Killdeer on July 03, 2011, 09:59:00 AM
Alzheimer's is a despicable disease, taking our loved ones a piece at a time. My stepmom has it, and my dad has some dementia. Sometimes it is like the weight of the oceans is sitting square upon my heart. I have some idea how hard this is for you, Marc, and want you to know that I am praying for you to have the strength to carry through with all the tasks before you. It seems unending, snowballing as the months tick by.

I try, though it is hard, to disassociate myself from what I am doing, so as to not take personally all the barbs that lance my spirit, the constant demands and seemingly no-win situations. Give yourself some slack that it won't be done perfectly, because we ain't perfect. And yes, you do need to go stump-shooting or just find a pretty place to sit and see the beauty of God's works, to remind yourself that life is indeed good. I always feel a little guilty, knowing that there is something else that I should be doing, but getting beaten down every day without relief will burn you out and make you weaker at what you HAVE to do. And time will lead you to a release from your burden. The great lady who raised you and nurtured your loves is not the burden, but the disease is a sucker-of-life, and a heavy one.

I wish I could rub the stress from your shoulders and put a bow in your hand, but you are way down there and I am way up here, so see what solution you can find locally and take heart in that you have many friends here and at home, and of course, the One who loves you most of all, for He called you forth to walk this stony path.

Killdeer

(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v249/Killdeer/Hunting%20and%20Camp/VanceRun600.jpg)
Title: Re: Prayers for mom and I ...
Post by: bayoulongbowman on July 03, 2011, 12:52:00 PM
Thanks Killie, man dang, you nailed it...wipping my tears..it my mom , she has always been there for me, shes the best , many many thanks...its hard today , I havent had a vacition in forever, but its me and mom right now, I go through so many different emotions, Happy July the 4th, my bow walking friend, mark ps the pic is awesome , kind of takes me away in my mind...i need prayers today...marco
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Post by: BenBow on July 04, 2011, 10:23:00 PM
Amen to Killie. Prayers for comfort and courage.